I met this guy sometime ago. I live in the UK while he stays in the United Stats. Although we haven't officially met, but we've been in touch (video calls, chats, and all). He calls at least once everyday. This guy is in his late 30s and I'm in my early 20s and I've been curious as to why he has never been married till this age. He told me that he had had really long relationship with girls, but it didn't work out due to some issues. And hence, some years been wasted. Note: he said relationships and not marriage.
Fast forward to some days go, I typed his name on google and found 2 divorce cases which he was involved in. Out of curiosity, I looked up the women on Facebook. One of them is quite advanced in age, she should be older than the guy ( I thought maybe he did that to legalise his stay in the country). I went through her pictures and I saw their pre-wedding shoots and all that. Although it wasn't all that glamorous (it looked like an arranged marriage) but then it's still marriage
And the second woman, I couldn't find on Facebook.
This guy is really asking for a serious relationship with me, but then I have doubts about him, owing to the facts that he's hiding something. And they're other aspects of his life that aren't very clear to me.
Now should I confront him, won't that make me look a secret investigator aka "stalker"? (If this option is right, kindly suggest ways I can go about it without appearing like a stalker)
Or should I just keep communicating with him, maybe he will open up one day. Note: we haven't know for long.
Or should I just cut communication with him because he's not totally sincere.
Note: he's a very nice guy and God fearing and all that. But deep down I feel that his niceness and fear of God are just facade.
Sunday, 12 February 2017