From a female blog reader:
Please help me I hate to cuddle but my husband wants to kill me with cuddling. At some point I will not be breathing, this man will grab me so tight and be breathing on me, imagine exchanging breath it could be irritating.
I have begged him and cried to him to please stop cuddling or even if he wants to he should wait when we fall asleep he can let me be, but he will not. This man will grab me like sardine, I will not be able to turn,sometimes I dream bad dream because I see myself dying slowing, his cuddling is like choking.
Please I need you all to tell me the best way to handle this matter cause it is getting out of hand. I practically run from the room, sometimes I pretend to fall asleep in the sitting room just because I can't sleep. This might break my home because he is already accusing me of cheating on him but he won't listen to me when I tell him to stop choking me to death.