From a female blog reader:
I am getting married next week to a man I was introduced to by my friend. Of recent I let curiosity get the best of me and I went through my fiancee's phone only to intercept he and my frinds chat about how she forgot to hug him when she came around, how he misses her, how he wants her right here...I was alarmed! My friend never told me they were involved or once dated before introducing him to me...Now I don't know what to say to my fiancee and I definitely dont know what to ask my friend...her sight disgust me so much that I avoid seeing her at every possible opportunity...when she calls that she wants to come see me or we should hang out...I tell her am out or am very busy wt work.... am just confused right here...we were bossom friends and I expected she would have told me if dey ever had an affair or if my fiancee was once into her...and I also expected she would start giving my fiancee distance now that he is hooked...AM JUST SO CONFUSED...please help me..I love my Man and he has shown me nothing But Love! I don't know what to think..!Am having sleepless nights!