My name is Bella . And You've helped me in ways I can't even mention. But please I need you all advice on this issue that is giving me migraine. I'll try to make it brief. I have a twin sister Ella. We are very much identical, we do practically everything together. She's my best friend. She started dating Cj few months back but they've been friends since 3years, (he lives abroad). We all hang out together and with Cj's first cousin Oc when we are all in town and we all kept in touch every now and then. Not until recently a month back to be precise I started dating Oc.He loves me and I love him as well. He's the best I have ever been with. I have never been this happy. We're all cool with it. In fact it made the 4 of us more connected. The issue now is from the men's family, some are saying cousins can't marry twins ,one form of generational curse or something, that is not morally right. In fact I can't wrap my head around it. while others are in support.
We have been going back and forth on this issue. Now Cj and Ella called their relationship quit cuz they want us to be happy since they introduced us. and I can't be happy knowing fully well that they are not. Please y'all can twins marry cousins? Then why do we not kick against twins marrying twins.
What should we do. Should I call my relationship quit as well. I don't think I can.I don't know what to do. We have tried talking it out but still the same. Is love not worth fighting for or this kind of love is forbidden. Please be honest with us.
Tuesday, 29 November 2016