My husband does not have sex with me or enjoys sex except he sees blood. I have been married for 7 years now but it has been pains and sorrow. My husband use to beat me messily when we newly got married, even without reasons,but I always notice that he uses sharp objects when he is doing that and as soon as I bleed he will cuddle me and begin to apologize while we reconcile as we make love. This went on and on until I observed when ever we make love all he does is kiss the bloody part and when I try to clean it off he gets very aggressive. It continued until I had my both kids. I had to confront him one day telling him that he is a ritualist and am ready to divorce him before he kills me but I was so shocked he was calm about it. Instead he went on his knees to further explain to me how he gets turned on by blood. He said most times he does not mean to hurt me but because of his crazy fantasy he just has to since he does not want to cheat on me. After much explaining and telling me about his violent background I decided to reason with him. The bible said for better for worse . Instead I found a way around it, and decided that each time we want to make love I will let him cut me with a razor instead of beat me up. All I just need to do is endure the pain and satisfy my husband. Yes the scares in my body is uncountable but I am doing it all for love and marriage which is called sacrifice .so ladies and gentlemen instead of send stories to Somtoo Okoye blog or keep complaining about your marriages and relationships, better learn to sacrifice except you all will end up single .everyone of us have our secret pleasure so let us learn to accommodate each other please and stop complaining.
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Tuesday, 1 November 2016