This is the first time I'll be posting my story but I'v been a fan of this platform, pls keep me anonymous. I'v been in a relationship for 3 years now nd initially my boyfriend has been really nice nd caring, he's the type that when ever he gets something for himself he gets for me also nd we've been cool ,Early this year I noticed a change in his attitude he was always withdrawn nd down but when ever I confront him he'll say it's nothing major just work pressure but I was always worried coupled with the whole ressison thing.I felt there was something else attached because when ever we are 2geda he's always busy with his phone nd he was really so protective of his phone .Well, on the long run I discovered he had this white lady he talks with nd found out they were in a relationship, off course I was really mad nd we had a big misunderstanding but he later came explaining it was just business nd the only way he could get her to do business with him is by playing along wit Her nd he told me she's not the only one he does business with nd I should understand, well I kept calm nd we went on buh my Issue is this white Lady in particular is always in the picture, she even talks with my bf's older brother nd now the sister. Whenever I'm with my boyfriend he's always with his phone chatting with this lady although he tries to hide it from me but I'm not a baby not to notice.The emotion in the relationship is not just there anymore nd I just don't think I can go on with it anymore , so my question is I'm I taking it too far? or I'm I been selfish not wanting to understand him because several times I try talking to him he just claims I don't trust him nd I should understand him . Pls help out I'm really confused!
Wednesday, 26 October 2016