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Monday, 3 October 2016

From a female blog reader:
Good day. I commend you for the good work you are doing. I hope you post my story because it took me great courage to type this. I am just 19 years while my boyfriend is 21. We have been in a relationship for 2 years, and I can say he loves me a lot with the things he does. However, we have a huge problem. He is sexually active. According to him, he has never had a girlfriend who doesn't have sex with him, but I am the only one who seems different. He doesn't actually force me to have sex with him, because he feels it should come from my mind. I am still a virgin, and I feel i am too young and immature to involve in such act. Most times, I visit him in private, and no matter how aroused he feels, he just look me in the eye and walk out. He recently confided in me that he has few girls he flirts around with just to gain sexual pleasure because he can't abstain and yet doesn't want to force me. He pleaded and said he still loves me but can't do away with these girls. I felt very bad I felt very bad and jealous so I broke up. But he has been pleading that we come back, he can't do without me or he just kill himself. My question is this: should I go back to him or let go? Should I endure the way he flirts? I know it is a big problem for him because he cries to me about it most times. Yet I still can't have sex with him any time soon no matter what. Please mature advice...What should I do concerning this relationship. I still love him though.
 
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