I must say ur page is really turning me into a phone addict these days, the smile, the laugh and the serious comments of individuals...keep it up. my christian sister was married to this muslim guy at her final year in the university when she was 23 cause she got pregnant for him, she actually went into the marriage out of ignorance of what marriage means and all that(the guy was just an ssce holder).the family never supported the marriage though especially the father saying there is bound to be inferiority complex and moreso the religion difference, but the mother find her way of making the father agree to d wedding (just like every other woman will do) after few months, the husband started breathing her, the first was because they had an argument on d religion. my sister claimed the spoke about her practising her religion before wedding and he promised never to bother her. to be honest d guy was a good guy (at least to some extent). so on this particular day after d second child dy had another argument which led to violence again. then when my sister asked how peace could rain he replied by saying she must become a Muslim which is not possible cause of her father and even her own believ. now after the violence she called her dad and told him what her husband said, then the father demanded to c her. although they settled the fight but then she still travelled to yo c d dad. on getting home, the dad refused her from travelling back saying he is aware of all the violence but he choose not to talk but this time he has to act. so she called her husbandand told him to come with an elder to plead to her dad but the husband refused saying he already paid bride price. later the lady returned to Lagos and started work but she didn't go back to d hubby since he refused to go see his parents. but later they started seeing again although sex was not involved this time........now because the guy has not started seeing anyone else he is asking her to come back giving her many rules 1)the children must not go to church 2)she must stop making friends in d neighbourhood and bla bla.
now because the guy has not started seeing anyone else he is asking her to come back giving her many rules 1)the children must not go to church 2)she must stop making friends in d neighbourhood and bla bla. now my sister is 28 she has experienced single life again for the past2and half years that they have been separated(now that she is reasonable )she knows what the outside looks like with men 2)she is scared for her children (like they say broken homes) but at the same time she thinks the marriage is not the best for her. she is really confused weather to go back or just move on... we all make mistakes in life, she only made d greated mistake which was marriage but pls dnt criticize her just advice pls. thanks
Wednesday, 7 September 2016